Many people feel like they have hit the lottery once they have found the right spouse for them. However, research show that 50 percent of all marriages have dealt with some type of adultery during the marriage.  If you have a feeling that your spouse is cheating, you need to get proof of this affair. There are three different ways on how to catch your spouse cheating, which are obtain telephone records, reviewing emails and text messages, and hiring a private investigator.

First, you should try to obtain home and cell phone records. Your spouse will normally make calls to his or her lover during times when you are not around.  Therefore, you should look for numbers that are listed often on phone bill that you are not familiar with.  Once you make a list of the numbers, you can use the Internet in order to determine who the telephone number belongs to. You should also look for calls that are made during the late night hours such as midnight or two am in the morning.

Reviewing email and text messages is another way on how to catch your spouse cheating.  Email and text messages are often use to send notes to the other woman or man. The good thing is that these messages can provide you with details regarding the affair.  By checking your spouse’s email or text messages, you will able to view any suspicious messages that may be sent to or receive from a secret lover.

You can hire a private investigator if you prefer to have someone else find any evidence of the affair.  The hourly rate for a private investigator can vary based on your location but they range from $20 to $200 per hour.  This method is recommended if you will like to have certain documentation for a divorce such as pictures. For a certain period of time, the investigator will track and record your spouse’s movements throughout the day and night. By giving the investigator detailed information about your spouse, you should be able to obtain better results.

It may take some time to find the proof that you are looking for especially if your spouse is good at hiding the evidence. It is best not to accuse your spouse of cheating until you find proof. Never give yourself away by letting your spouse know you are spying on them. Remember to remain calm and always trust your instincts.