During the moments of self-defense fighting, the most crucial thing to remember is always use common sense. The reason is that common sense will make you remember the following advices that will help you survive against aggressors in real life combat. All you must do is understand the facts and truths with regards to fighting.

In self defense fighting, if you are threatened or facing an opponent holding a weapon, and he wants your cell phone, wallet, jewelry or purse, the best thing to do is give it to your opponent. In this case, the opponent has the upper hand so better give up the material thing in exchange for serious injury. Your life is not worth a fancy self-defense move, and chances are it wouldn’t work anyway.

Remember in self-defense fighting to differentiate the make believe world and the real world. The martial arts and kung fu stuff that Hollywood produces is not practical in the real world. You will never be able to stop a bullet with your mouth, much more disarm a crazy maniac with a smooth move named after some animal. Do not forget that movie fighting is staged so it is not a good idea to ever imitate it.

In self-defense fighting, it is crucial to think and take action even when under stress. You can try getting hit in the gym under controlled conditions and with safety equipment to avoid injuries. Train yourself to take hits and also how to hit back while thinking about your next moves. You should be capable of fighting even under a stressful circumstance without folding in fear. Focus and concentration can help you withstand punches and kicks at the same time retaliate with maximum impact.

Lastly, in self-defense fighting, your ace in the hole is to fight dirty. In scuffles, there is a chance that you will face a bigger or heavier opponent. If you have an opening to kick or punch your opponent in the groin, do not hesitate to do so. Pulling the hair, poking the eye, or biting any limb is fair game.

Keep in mind that there is no beauty in fighting so if you have the opportunity to walk away from a fight, do so. Meaningless fights doesn’t necessarily prove your toughness to anyone.